"The hero always gets the girl" - Spider-man
Until it's a little too late.
We all know the story. Gwen Stacy Died, Mary Jane for the majority of the time is endangered.
Often times we think that being a superhero is cool but the reality, superhero takes a massive amount of sacrifices. Superheroes doesn't think about themselves, their only concern is how to make their city a BETTER PLACE. For a superhero to be able to do this, He should be sacrificing his LIFE, His FAMILY, his CAREER (unless his career is to being a superhero), and mostly his HAPPINESS for someone he truly adore... the LOVE of his LIFE.
Danger! danger! DANGER!!! if a superhero chooses to live a life with having to live up either one of his sacrifices.
HIS LIFE: putting his life before him. No one will tell if he may live another day.
HIS FAMILY: Identity being exposed to the public, there will be enemies who will try to attack at your family if any.
HIS CAREER: A job is a job. nonetheless, it is business. but in any circumstances, you will have to either 24/7 be awake and save your city, or be in the cubicle of your workstation and finish your paper works.
THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE: This could be considered as a part of the family but it is way more complicated than that. To Love someone, for me, is the most amazing feeling in the World! yet, as superhero, your personal feelings of loving someone is just not possible! 24/7 is dedicated to saving your city, if exposed, enemies will target the ones you love. If a superhero manages to not get exposed on his Identity, would he be able to manage the time of being in a date while saving his city?
You just can't have it both ways... *sigh*